What is Couples Rehab?

What is Couples Rehab?

In recent times, the number of couples struggling with drug or alcohol addiction has been on the increase. Married partners and cohabiting couples who share drug addiction often quarrel. They generally experience emotional distance and are emotionally disturbed in most instances.

Usually, members of such intimate relationships spend a lot of time influencing one another by taking drugs and alcohol. This results in a cycle of continuous substance use for stress relief and getting away from problems. Unfortunately, in worse instances, a couple’s drug addiction problems may go on to impact other members of the family.

The implication of being addicted to a substance and being around a partner who does the same is that dropping off the addiction can be more difficult. In addition, when couples influence their drug addictions in this manner, it becomes challenging for any of the partners to seek therapy as an individual.

Couples rehab has the means of breaking drug misuse cycles and helping struggling couples 

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Can Couples Go to Rehab Together?

Therapists in couples drug rehab centers understand that couples with addictions sometimes fear not seeing their partners when treatment begins. As a result, most rehabs for couples are planned in a way that caters to the treatment of both partners simultaneously.

When rehab centers cater to the uniqueness of a couple and accommodate the needs of a relationship, partners have a feeling of not being alone. This improves the results of the recovery process as couples share more enthusiasm. Additionally, couples get to support one another and are dedicated to the recovery of their partners.

A couple’s rehab becomes the best option when both partners are committed to recovery. In addition, rehab for couples can extend into family therapy when couples have children who are impacted by drug misuse.

 

Is Couples Rehab Beneficial in Treatment?

Rehab for couples is beneficial because couples follow an addiction recovery program while strengthening their relationship. Drug recovery treatment for couples includes therapy like behavioral couple’s therapy and family therapy. These programs are geared towards abstinence as well as rebuilding relationships.

Let’s take a look at some of the benefits of rehab for couples:

  • Couples get to understand themselves better through the course of rehab programs
  • Couples navigate their recovery plans together while clearing assumptions and misconceptions
  • Rehab programs help couples to a sense of responsibility in maintaining their partner’s sobriety
  • When drug recovery is made with a loved one, the process becomes very stress-free
  • Recovery programs allow couples to discuss their addiction problems with other couples
  • Rehab centers usually have couples doing well in their recovery plans. This encourages newer couples
  • Couples get to improve their decision-making concerning finances, parenting, and other necessities.

When couples share recovery programs, they celebrate their successes with each sober milestone reached. Seeing progress in a partner strengthens the resolve to see through the recovery program. What better way to recover from drug addiction than to do so in the arms of a loved one who understands one best?

Couples attending rehab together must put in a great deal of work, commitment, and accountability to their partners. Yet, regardless of the couples rehab center, the goal is to ensure that couples become drug-free and return to safe and healthy lifestyles.

 

How to Find Couples Rehab Centers in Los Angeles

Having more awareness of having couples attend couples’ drug rehab centers, accessing rehab for couples is easy. Take the first step by informing your partner and planning to attend a competent rehab center for couples.

At Last House, we have an ideal setting for couples seeking therapy for drug misuse disorders. Since relationships differ, our structured sober living for men caters to the uniqueness of relationships by focusing on the underlying causes of addiction and structuring peculiar recovery plans.

Here in Los Angeles, we have two sober living homes open to help you and your partner recover. Our friendly staff teams are happy to welcome you into our couple-specific program. If you are struggling with addiction alone or with a loved one, call us. Recovery is only a step ahead. So reach out to us today for help with your addiction.

Success Stories: Alec B.

It’s hard to express in words how grateful I am for the Last House.  I mean, how do you describe how it feels to have your life saved, and your feelings toward those who saved you? In all likelihood, it’s probably something that only people who share similar experiences can understand. But I am certain that at the Last House, anyone struggling with addiction will have their best chance of experiencing what that feels like.

Before I entered the Last House in July 2021, I was completely broken, mired in the tail end of a multi-year downward spiral. Over the previous months, I had lost my high-paying dream job, lost my girlfriend, burned bridges with friends and family, and blew a small fortune on drugs, alcohol, and their accompanying activities. I had been homeless for a couple of weeks, staying at seedy motels and crashing at friend’s couches until they invariably kicked me out for stealing. My family wouldn’t talk to me.

In those days I often repeated to myself the Samuel Johnson quote, “He who makes a beast of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man.” What the quote leaves out, however, is that the pain of being a beast is infinitely greater than that of being a man. I wouldn’t say that I was human. I existed, but for the sole purpose of using. You could say that I was tired, lonely, hurting, scared, but the truth is I wasn’t, I didn’t even have the emotional vacancy for those feelings. Using was the only thing in my universe.

As my money and options dwindled, I was given a choice. Go the Last House or be homeless. Not being a particularly tough or street-savvy man, I decided I probably couldn’t manage on the tough streets of LA. But to say I was excited to be at the Last House would be a blatant lie. It seemed like hell. Too strict, too many rules, people telling me bluntly the ways in which I was hurting myself and those around me. Plus, I figured I was better than everyone around me. I had a master’s degree from Johns Hopkins and was only recently making well over a 100k working for the U.S. government in defense. What the fuck could this place tell me, I figured. I was, as I would later come to learn, blinded by both ego and insecurity, twin pillars upholding an emotional structure that told me I was not good enough.

But then, somehow, the miracle happened. The Last House began to click. In the structure, in the accountability, in the work, are lessons, key lessons. What does it mean to be a man, to be a man of integrity, to be able to show up for not just yourself but for your loved ones and community? What does it mean to meet your obligations, to rest your head at night on your pillow knowing that you tried your best to handle yourself the right way? What is it like to be honest, both with others and yourself? How does it feel to support others, and to be supported? To give, and not take? These were questions I had often wrestled with, but was never able to find an answer to, when I was using.

But at the Last House, these questions are not only asked of you, but answered, should you choose to do the work. And the reward is spiritual freedom, and so much more. While at the Last House I made a new family, learned how to conduct myself with dignity, learned how to love myself, and be there for others – things I had always wanted for myself but never had. Things that I am so grateful for today.

And, yes, eventually the material things did return as well. I now live in a fancy apartment again making lots of money. But truly, those things, while nice, are not what is important. The values, lessons, and relationships I formed while at the Last House, that is what is important.

So, to you newcomers of the Last House, hold on, stay a while. It will not always be easy, nothing important ever is, especially not getting sober. However, I can assure you that if you put your head down, and do the necessary work, the life waiting for you on the other side is beyond belief.